Public transit etiquette
Heidi | May 24, 2006I took the Dart home from work today. I was sitting on my seat minding my own business listening to my MP3 player when this guy sat directly next to me. No one was sitting across from me. There were other seats available. Why did he have to sit right next to me? Doesn’t he know the public transit rule? You don’t sit next to someone unless you have to. Not only did he sit right next to me, he squashed me and invaded my personal space. I was really happy that I was getting off at the next stop.
I also noticed a few other silly things on the Dart today. This morning, one of the guys getting off at my stop got up a bit before hand and kept hitting the “door open” button. The train was still moving! I hope that the doors aren’t going to open with the train moving. He just kept repeatedly hitting the button like a rat in an experiment hoping to get a different result. The doors opened after the train stopped and it made the little “open the doors now” sound. That hit got rewarded. This evening at my stop, a lady hit the button before the train stopped. She only hit it once. After the train made the little sound, she just stood there like she expected the door to open. The door only opens when you hit the button AFTER the train stops and the sound is made. I ended up hitting the button again to open the door because she was just waiting and the people on the other side of the door were staring at us waiting to get on the train.
The guy sitting next to me brings me to a tangent about personal space. I don’t think most people here need as much personal space as I do. I frequently feel like someone is sitting too close to me or standing too close to me, especially in a queue. If you are touching me in the queue, you are too close! Give people at least a few inches. This is especially important when using an ATM. Give the person using the ATM at least a few feet. If you stand too close, you can see the person’s pin and you really don’t need to see what they are doing at the ATM. Unless you are trying to take their pin number…












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